Lori Ann Wednesday, October 6, 2010

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Ok, so if you read my very first blog or my  “On the Couch,” you know that I have been questioned about what I do to my hair, and many would like to know my regimen. So, here goes it…I don’t have one. You may think that is crazy, but that is the truth. I have been natural for 7 years, and just this year I truly began to learn how to manage my hair in a healthful way. Prior to February of this year, I used whatever shampoos and conditioners I pleased. I didn’t worry about good cones, bad cones, no cones, low cones, etc. All I did was wash and condition my hair, add the styler de jour and keep it moving. Now, I had tried Miss Jessie’s, Carol’s Daughter and Jane Carter products, but save one or two products from each collection, I wasn’t that impressed.
When I became a Youtube junkie in February, I was introduced to the tightly curly method, which I began to use because I already had some Aussie Moist conditioner. I have to admit that I noticed a huge difference in the manageability of my hair and breakage was at a minimum. The funny thing is that, prior to February, I had this patch in the back of my head, that I DREADED whenever I was styling. It was thick and always tangled and seemed as if it would break off whenever the wind would blow. When I started the tightly curly method, that bit of hair began to take on the texture of the hair around it. So, I think that I have adopted this method of leaving in conditioner, but I don’t have a set schedule on when or how often I wash and condition my hair, I just do it when ever my hair tells me to.
I also lacked a protective style. I would wear my hair in two strand-twists and twist outs, but I would rarely do anything to protect my ends. I would barely even wrap my hair up at night. Granted, I owned to satin bonnets, I just didn’t use them. I would also use heat whenever I wanted. Now, I haven’t put a hot comb in my hair in at least 11 months, but I do use the blow dryer and curling iron. I haven’t had the desire to do it this year, but I do like my hair straight every now and then. I would always add a heat- protectant before I added the heat.  Now, that I am more aware of how to manage my hair, I try to twist or put my hair up every night and I do sleep in a satin bonnet.
I would also color my hair with box dyes as often as I wanted. That started when I was a teen, so it is a bit hard to break. My last box dye was in February, but my hair recovered from it really well. As a matter of fact, 1/3 of my hair, didn’t even take the blue-black dye. I still have these red what I like to call highlights from the failed attempt, but I recently, thanks to Nikki, purchased some henna and look forward to the results.
So, now that I know that I need to put a little more thought into what I use on my hair, I will attempt to build  a regimen. I welcome you along on this journey as I create a customized routine for my hair. I love my hair; I want it to be healthy. I am a bit nervous about this regimen thing, I don’t mind experimenting on myself, but I don’t want to mess up what my hubby calls his “baby doll” hair. But, operation healthy hair is beginning, and I will chronicle as much as I can on CN. Any thoughts and suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!
Here are some "before" pics:




             "What do you call it?" dinner,  December 2006 (Wash and Go)




          This is Cherrywood tones and textures, May 2007 (Wash and Go)






                                        Here's our wedding pic, April 2008 (twist out)





This is my bridal shower, blown out and flying



                                   Yet another twist out, October 2008

Here is my press out Summer 2009, I cut the bangs that May. The other is the same press out after I curled it. The curls last 2 weeks. 


This is Fall 2009, all picked out:
Here's a winter 2010 wash and go that I elongated with the blow dryer and Kids Organics Olive Oil + Shea Detangling Hair Lotion (see the red?):

Lori Ann Monday, May 31, 2010




There is nothing more beautiful than a confident woman that knows her worth as an individual; not as an image of beauty based on some one or some thing that she is not. Add to that modifier the word natural. It brings forth a whole new meaning. There is nothing more beautiful than a natural woman that knows her worth as an individual. When the adjective natural is added, the connotation changes, completely.
Most natural women have endured societal scrutiny for being natural, whether it be from family, friends, colleagues or complete strangers. We get the questions, the looks, the sneers, and the snickers. In most cases, it makes us stronger, more convicted and more comfortable in our own skin as we persist on our natural journey.  In some cases, it can break us and we succumb to societal pressure, altering our hair to fit in. 
But what makes natural hair so taboo to some? Most of us are coily and content; we enjoy the versatility of having natural hair. It is liberating not to be restricted by our styles. We can dance in the rain without a care, literally. That is the beauty of being natural. So why is it that our friends and family treat our going natural as such a bad thing?
For all the “old pros” that are reconsidering their natural tresses, think about your initial reason for going natural. Has it changed? Or have you become bored with your hair? Thanks to the internet, a natural community is at our fingertips. There are so many websites, blogs, tutorials, etc. that make having natural hair easier to style, maintain, grow; you name it- it’s out there. Every woman has the need to evolve and progress, explore your resources. Experiment with your hair, you can breath new life into your style in a matter of minutes. Recall how invigorating it was when the journey really hit you. When your natural hair made you feel beautiful. Inject that moment into every negative thought, every condescending comment, and every contemplation.  Be quickened by that feeling. And if you still think that your want to stray from the natural, guess what? It’s your prerogative. Do what makes you happy. If you regret that decision, a new natural journey is always awaiting you with open arms.
 For all the new naturals out there, think about why you wanted to go natural. What inspired you? Hold on to that inspiration every time someone says to you, “but your hair was so pretty, before…” Just because they have the audacity to judge you, does not mean that you have to explain yourself. This is where we coily girls get our confidence. The more people badger us about how “different” our hair is after we transition, the easier it is to see the false image of beauty that society has set forth. Moreover, it sets us apart as individuals.
Isn’t it wonderful to know that no one else in the universe is exactly like you? Why does society try so hard to make us all the same? Be an individual; embrace your self in all of your natural glory. No guises, just you. Beautiful you. Be encouraged, we’ve all been there. Hang on to your inspiration. There is nothing more beautiful than a natural woman that knows her worth as an individual.

Lori Ann Sunday, May 9, 2010

So, my new kick had been a chunky twist out using the flat twist method. With only one problem, I am horrible at flat twisting. I've never known how to french braid or do cornrows, so this has truly been an adventure for me. The first attempt took about an hour to finish 7 twists. Attempt number 2, 45 minutes and finally attempt number three about 20 minutes. So, as I finally get the hang of it, what I find is that I don't love the look that the flat twists give, I just love the chunkyness, so I have been putting my hair in giant two strand twists, which takes all of 10 minutes. Then I twist the TSS into a bantu knot and sleep on them. When I get up in the morning, I un-twist the bantu knot and let the TSS down as well. The result- chunky, curly, run my finger from root to tip hair. It's really close to the Corrine Bailey Rae style, as close as I've gotten at least.
















And then I watched youtube and decided that I should put my hair into a protective style for a few weeks to give it a break. BIG MISTAKE!!! I discovered genie locs (yarn braids) and there were several tutorials. So what does Mrs. Do-it- yourself do? I went to the store and bought some yarn and did it myself. It took a while for me to get the hang of it, I had NEVER attempted to add any kind of supplemental hair save a track that I wrapped around into a ponytail when I was in undergrad. It was by far the most strenuous thing I have every done. It took three days to complete, but I was smart enough to do the front and sides so that I could pull it back into a low ponytail to camo the hair that had yet to be done. The majority of the time spent on the third day was re-braiding, I had several that were too loose and had slipped, and some that just looked atrocious. I also realized how extremely soft my hair is. There are some regions of my hair that will not hold this yarn, no matter how hard I try. In those places, I have just TSS'ed that hair and it is blending, for now. I love locs, just love my curls more. I think that this is a fantastic way to get the look without the commitment!! We'll see how long this lasts...

Lori Ann Wednesday, April 14, 2010

So,  I have yet to try the Kinky-Curly Custard. I hate ordering new things online without actually seeing the product, smelling it, etc. And since I live in po-dunk Alabama, we don't have a Whole Foods store. (Factually, I live in Montgomery, we should hav a Whole Foods store!!!) In my many viewings of YouTube videos, I repeatedly came across ECO Styler Olive Oil Styling Gel. Many people said that it was comparable to KCC. So, I went in to Sally's to buy a jar. It was priced at $2.99 for the 32oz size, which is normally $4.79. So, of course, I thought 32oz at that price was a steal. At the time of purchase, I had just done a super cute twist out, so I decided to wait a few days to try the gel. On wash day, I cleansed my scalp, washed my hair, conditioned then rinsed and conditioned without rinsing, leaving in my Aussie Moist Conditioner. I detangled with my knock-off denman and sectioned my hair into four. Once I sectioned, I sub sectioned as needed. I took a small scoop of ECO styler and smoothed it down each section. It took me about 30 minutes to smooth all of my hair. Once I smoothed it all, I let it air dry. Now, I have to admit, that it was a little crunchy in places where I was a little heavy handed with the gel, but it was by far the best $2.99 that I have ever spent.  My hair was shiny, well defined and for the most part, extremely soft. The following morning, I took off my satin bonnet, and let my hair fly. It still looked really great, but on that particular day, it was really humid, so I experienced a good bit of shrinkage. The following day, I decided to play with the product a little. I sectioned my hair,  took a little of my Lisa's Hair elixir (dabbed on index finger) and worked it into small sections, I then smoothed the ECO down each section. And you'll never guess what happened? Beautifully defined, soft, shiny curls all over again. I couldn't believe it. My hair loves this stuff. Six days after the initial usage, my Hubby ran his hand from my scalp the full length of my hair with just one little snag about an inch from the tip. But, he had his finger in the middle of a curl, once I moved that curl around his finger, he got all the way through it with no problems. This is the first time that I've even used gel in my hair since 2004. I always had bad results with gel. You know the flaking, the stickiness, the stiffness. Not this time.  It goes on easy, no white clumps, no sticky fingers or flaking. And most importantly- it left my hair soft and shiny. I am so thoroughly impressed!!!



This is the twist out. All I did was put my hair in about 16 large two-strand twists while it was still wet. I use the tightly curly method, so my hair was saturated with Aussie Moist Conditioner at the time that I twisted it.



This is the final product after the ECO styler, but before my hair was dry. Again, when I applied the ECO style, my hair was saturated with Aussie Moist Conditioner. 








This is day 4, the day after the ECO refresher. Still soft and shiny as before.










I got extremely hot overnight and the satin cap didn't help the matter. My hair drew up so much, I had to do something.On day 5, so I stretched with a little Kids Organic Olive Oil and Shea Detangling Lotion and the blow-dryer. Don't yell, I used cool air on the lowest setting.  Even after a little heat it was still shiny and fantabulous!!

















On wonderful day six, my hair looks like this, drawn up a bit from humidity, but still adorable. Like I said, this stuff really works, and all of this for $2.99? Can't beat the price.  ECO Styler Olive Oil Styling Gel, has just been added to the products I love list!!

Lori Ann Wednesday, March 31, 2010

So, I have yet to try the Kinky Curly products, but watched the product video on the site last night. Now, I don't like to be jealous of people for what they have. What God has for me, He has for me and the same for you. But her hair was so beautiful!!! For a spilt second the jealousy bug poked out it's ugly little head, but just as fast as he did, I asked the Lord to forgive me and became even more inspired to grow my own hair. I noticed that she uses pretty much the same methods that I use already, but uses Kinky-Curly products and rather than a Denman like brush, she uses a wide toothed comb. She does a leave in, detangles and then adds product and smoothes her hair just like I do. She does however have pomade for when the hair gets crunchy. This I do not have. So I am on a search for pomade that adds shine and softens the texture of crunchy curls. I said to myself that the next time I am in Birmingham, I would go to Whole Foods and check out all of the Kinky Curly products. I am very wary when it comes to buying new, more expensive products online. I like to check them out first, as I did with Miss Jessie's when I went to Curltopia in 2008, before I send for them. So I've added the Kinky Curly video below. This is basically how I've been treating my hair since the first of March. Prayerfully, it will grow out as healthy and beautiful as Shelley's or Terri's. But, if it doesn't I'll still love it any way, it's mine, it's me...




This is Shelley Davis the owner of the company in the video, compliments of Kinky Curly